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| Know that love grows like a rose. |
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Know that love is nurtured not demanded. | Expect that you can really love without knowing the person. |
| Show your love in action. | Say, "I love you..." without showing it. | Show your love in action. | Say, "I love you..." without showing it. |
| Remember the things closest to the her heart. | Be very forgetful. | Remember the things closest to the his heart. | Ignore him. |
| Know that love is the result of many combinations | Love does not just come out of one appeal. | Know that men sometimes express love differently to women. | Think that just because he says, "I love you..." that he really does love you. |
| Think to yourself, "What am I in love with..." | Go with the flow... | Think to yourself, "What can he really love me like I love him..." | Feel that he is the love potion... and become blind. |
| Know that love is giving | Think that love involves only what you can get out of it. | Know that love is giving | Think that love involves only what you can get out of it. |
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Think that love means taking advantage of virtue | Know that if he really loves you he will have respect for you. | Think that his taking advantage of you is because he deeply desires you. |
| Know that trust is part of love | Think that its okay to be jealous or over protective... she is not a 'thing' | Know that trust is part of love | Think you should be always suspicious of what he does. |
| Know that when someone loves you they inspire you to do better, to bring out the best of yourself... | Say things to her as though you are the embodyment of perfection. | Know that when someone loves you they inspire you to do better, to bring out the best of yourself... | See him putting you down as being okay |
"The
great question: "Am I in love ?" can only be answered over time. Most
young dating couples find themselves in the illusion of lust instead
of love, because they focus on the things the world deems as important
such as; how you look, popularity, money, etc. In
this illusion one can become very mixed up with the emotions that they
feel. We have met many couples, who after marriage only get the true
idea of whom they married as the romance and the 'act' died. 
Don't
fall into that trap. Spencer W. Kimball once said, "Do not pray to marry
the one you love, but to love the one that you marry." This has a lot
of good sense in it even if you are not thinking of marriage now it
will help set the foundation for your decision of "Am I in love... "