ROMANCE match

"How do you know if the two of you match up? Well, to us the key is spending the time in areas that will really let you know how the person reacts. On a date ask a lot of questions about the things that may affect both of you, such as work, education, family, spirituallity, goals, etc.

Then when you get the opportunity... see if the persons acts in the same manner he/she described. Make sure you are not acting as if you were in Hollywood... be the real you... its only fair to both you and the person you are dating."

Do	Don't	Do	Don't
_{Make sure that you maintain respect.}	_{Feel that you 'have her now' so you can lower your standards.}	_{Make sure that you maintain respect.}	_{Feel that its okay to 'relax' certain things.}
_{Use the time to know about her.}	_{Use the time to stare and dream.}	_{Use the time to find out how he thinks about certain issues or questions you may have.}	_{Use the time to just go with the flow.}
_{Make sure that your ideals are similar.}	_{Don't pass off major differences as they will catch up with you later.}	_{Make sure that your ideals are similar.}	_{Don't pass off major differences as they will catch up with you later.}
_{See that you are dressed right for a date as though you are going out with someone important (which you are).}	_{Look like you just fought on the front line of World War II.}	_{See that you maintain a style that demands respect.}	_{Lower your standards in dress that will give him the wrong idea.}
_{Ask plenty of questions about her family, her life, what she likes/dislikes.}	_{Ask plenty of stupid questions like what is your favourite number, colour, and candy bar.}	_{Ask plenty of questions that cause him to show you he is a 'man' and a 'gentleman'.}	_{Just listen and let the night just pass you by without getting to know him... time is valuable.}
_{Go somewhere that allows you to get to know her.}	_{Be in places that are suggestive or 'dark'.}	_{Have a say in where you go on the date and what you want to do.}	_{Allow him to take you into areas you feel uncomfortable.}
_{Do bring a flower or some sort of 'breaking the ice' gift.}	_{Feel you have to buy a gold chain or ring on the first date.}	_{Do be grateful what you receive (if its good taste).}	_{Be moody or show that you can only do things fit for Queen Victoria. He may be trying his best.}
_{Feel comfortable...}	_{Feel that to feel comfortable you should be holding her hand or kissing.}	_{Do be on your guard, but not nervous.}	_{Kissing on the first date is a definite, "no-no"}
_{Evaluate your compatibility with social, emotional, spiritual, physical and intellectual ideals.}	_{Just ride with the wind... you may be blown away.}	_{Evaluate your compatibility with social, emotional, spiritual, physical and intellectual ideals.}	_{Just concentrate on the 'fun' aspect of the date.}
_{Think... at the end of the day... will I ask her out again ?}	_{Wait til the last minute to decide where you stand.}	_{Think... will you go out with him again ?}	_{Wait til the demons of hell run through your stomach when he asks, "Can we go out again..."}
_{That you get her home or call to make sure she arrived home safely.}	_{Put her in a taxi late at night or call her a week later to find out if she arrived safely home.}	_{That he takes you home at a reasonable hour and someone knows where you will be.}	_{Figure time goes by... goes by...}