'The Start'
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| Look for someone that will appreciate you. | Look for someone who is only interested in what they want. | Look for a gentleman. | Look for Rambo... you won't be the centre of the date. |
| Find inner beauty first... it lasts. | Focus on what you see outside... it fades. | Find a Knight. | Look for a Rogue. |
| Look for someone with dress standards you feel confident. | Let your eyes mesmerize you... bad standards means other things about the person. | Look for a neat, clean cut guy as it tells about him. |
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| Look for someone that has the same intellect as you. | Look for someone with whom you will be bored with or with whom you will be confused. | Look for someone with ambition and fruits to show it. | Look for the most popular, or handsome are those things going to pay your bills ? |
| Look for someone that has friends you would have. | Look for someone that has allows 'bad influences' around them. | Look for someone that has the time for you. | Look for someone that is taken up with their friends more than they are with you. |
| Look for someone that is well spoken of by people. | Look for someone that seems mysterious. | Look for someone that you would want mom and dad to meet. |
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| Watch what their hobbies are... | Ignore their 'other' activities... you might get a surprise. | Watch how they handle idle time or time by themselves. | Ignore bad behaviour as just a 'one time thing'. |
| Talk with the person before you ask them directly on a date. | Don't just walk up to the person and spring the "Will you go out with me..." question as it might cause them to be so surprised that they may give you a negative response from confusion. | Wait til he asks you out like a gentleman. | Be hurry to ask him out... guys get the wrong impression. |
| Make sure that both of you know each other sufficiently before you ask her out so that it becomes more likely that she will say yes. | Walk up to a stranger as though you are Mr. Perfect or Mr. Right. | If you are not interested, let him know politely and honestly. | Try to beat around the bush, the guy's heart is in his hands. |
| Use direct statements so that she will know exactly where when and what you want to do on the date. | Look like you have no idea what you are doing and you have no manners and no money. | Listen carefully to what he is saying and acknowledge. | Don't roll your eyes as though, "How dare you..." |
| Use respect in your language when asking. |
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Respect yourself so that he will respect you. | Do things that suggest a wrong intention. Girls you know what I mean. |
| Think about what you are going to say to her... make sure you are polite. | Don't use old pick up lines that start with, "Whats up babe..." | Make sure to show you do not tolerate 'bad language or gestures'... if you allow one it leads to more. | Play 'loose' he will think you are easy. |
Now to... The Match
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