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'The Start'


The Start"So you want to date someone that you have been looking at for awhile. There are some things for you to consider before you make it known to the person. A good example is that most people look for things in the person they want to date that they feel are not apparent in themselves.

 

This may include, but is not limited to; the way they look, how popular they are, etc. Choosing to go out with someone has to be more than this as it can result it a lot of lost time that could of been spent doing something else and worst of all a broken heart. Check some of our 'Do' and 'Don't' categories below."




For Men
Women
Do...
Don't...
Do...
Don't...
Look for someone that will appreciate you. Look for someone who is only interested in what they want. Look for a gentleman. Look for Rambo... you won't be the centre of the date.
Find inner beauty first... it lasts. Focus on what you see outside... it fades. Find a Knight. Look for a Rogue.
Look for someone with dress standards you feel confident. Let your eyes mesmerize you... bad standards means other things about the person. Look for a neat, clean cut guy as it tells about him.
Look for the one with the latest style, who will be impressed with clothes when style is his only interest.
Look for someone that has the same intellect as you. Look for someone with whom you will be bored with or with whom you will be confused. Look for someone with ambition and fruits to show it. Look for the most popular, or handsome are those things going to pay your bills ?
Look for someone that has friends you would have. Look for someone that has allows 'bad influences' around them. Look for someone that has the time for you. Look for someone that is taken up with their friends more than they are with you.
Look for someone that is well spoken of by people. Look for someone that seems mysterious. Look for someone that you would want mom and dad to meet.
Look for someone that is likely to be pulled over for questioning by the police.
Watch what their hobbies are... Ignore their 'other' activities... you might get a surprise. Watch how they handle idle time or time by themselves. Ignore bad behaviour as just a 'one time thing'.
Talk with the person before you ask them directly on a date. Don't just walk up to the person and spring the "Will you go out with me..." question as it might cause them to be so surprised that they may give you a negative response from confusion. Wait til he asks you out like a gentleman. Be hurry to ask him out... guys get the wrong impression.
Make sure that both of you know each other sufficiently before you ask her out so that it becomes more likely that she will say yes. Walk up to a stranger as though you are Mr. Perfect or Mr. Right. If you are not interested, let him know politely and honestly. Try to beat around the bush, the guy's heart is in his hands.
Use direct statements so that she will know exactly where when and what you want to do on the date. Look like you have no idea what you are doing and you have no manners and no money. Listen carefully to what he is saying and acknowledge. Don't roll your eyes as though, "How dare you..."
Use respect in your language when asking.
Don't look her up and down like if you are hungry.
Respect yourself so that he will respect you. Do things that suggest a wrong intention. Girls you know what I mean.
Think about what you are going to say to her... make sure you are polite. Don't use old pick up lines that start with, "Whats up babe..." Make sure to show you do not tolerate 'bad language or gestures'... if you allow one it leads to more. Play 'loose' he will think you are easy.


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