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I found this site to be a place where I can talk about relationships with other people who can be serious about it and I wasn't sure where to post this. I am currently a 14 year guy going in to 10th grade. I have been dating this one girl since 8th grade. She was my first serious relationship and I loved being with her. We were on and off 3 or 4 times in 8th grade. We started going back out in 9th grade and were yet again on and off until I finally ended it one last time in May. I keep going back and I am not really sure why. When I am not going out with here she is all I want and I constantly think about her. Then when I go back out with her it like I don't feel the same I did before we went out. Its been this constant cycle for about 2 years and this final time I think she got over me but for some reason I can't get over her even though I am the one who always breaks up with her. I just keep going back and I don't know what to do. Does anyone else have this kind of problem or can anyone help me/give some insight?

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Am I understanding you correctly? Are you saying that you are 14 years old? If so, Bro, you are way too young to be talking about pairing off with any girl as though you are in a serious relationship, but more importantly, you are not even old enough to be a Member of this Community!

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I agree with JB, but would like to address your problem as it is most likely a psychological issue. You are more likely not missing her, but missing the relationship. You liked being in that serious relationship, but not the person you are with. Be patient, you will find someone else, you are young, but keep in mind that relationships will come and go, but the person you love never will. If you don't really like being around her when your with her, then you most likely just like the idea or feeling of being in a serious relationship. Since she was your first and so far only, then its natural you want to go back to her. But if you continue to return to her, then you won't ever be in another serious relationship with someone you do care about. I myself had this problem with my first serious relationship. Of course, we got back together three years later and ended up getting married! Hmm, maybe not the best of examples.....

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Offtopic but, Do I get a kick back for the website plug? J/K

Edited: konquererz on 11th Jul, 2006 - 4:00am

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I know that my account is probably about to be deleted because I am 14. I do not think it should matter that I am 14 because even though there is an age requirement I feel as though I am mature enough to handle being in these forums. Although I have not posted much you will see that so far there is nothing immature about my posts. Not all of us teens are as immature as many people think but its the immature ones who give everyone else the bad reputation. I came here looking for a place where I could talk and read about topics without having to deal with people being immature. As for this topic, I worded it wrong I guess. I did not mean a serious relationship as in plan on getting married but more as the first relationship I have had that wasn't based on lust. Also this is not my first girlfriend and I currently have another girlfriend thank you very much. Thank you for anyone that can give/gave input and maybe I will make a new account in a year and 2 months. Thank you konquererz for the link and the advice. It has got me thinking and definitely helped.

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That is correct Hon, the sign says "16 and over", but you still came in and at the same time call yourself "mature enough"?