Wish I could change this about myself
Wish I could change this about myself, I feel that I care for others a lot and have a tendency to let people walk over on me at times. Now while I am working I am the opposite and a take charge type of guy to make sure the job is done correctly and quickly. This way the job is done to my liking and people are safer for it. Keeping my eyes and ears open for possible dangers makes my work some what stressful but soon it is done and I can relax.
I think it is when I am relaxing and not working that I allow people to walk over me. It is these times that I wish I could change about myself for I find myself giving people food, clothing, coins to help them out. Do they really need the help or are they just taking advantage of my good nature? See that is why I would like to change that. I can not tell if one is truly in need or not. I guess being more of a loner I do not have the social skills to tell those who truly need help from those who will do all they can to take from kind people more than they should.