Do not take everything as 'self'. It is for everyone that concerns themselves with these things and yet do not understand the reason for it. A lot of people have the same qualms you and Vincenzo raised, they just do not raise it, but I get all the Email insults and delete the nonsense Posts, so is not Public.
If everyone would write Constructively, keep on Topic, spell check and not solely try to raise their Post count then everything would be 'open', in fact it used to be like that, BUT life is not that way and the internet is more full of people who try to do their own thing / have their own agenda than a site's interest at heart - thus there are rules, scripts and Bots to stop them from trying to twist things towards their own pursuits.
I've witnessed a lot of boards fall apart because the powers that be could not control the inmates.
I feel for ya. Certainly not an easy job, especially if you WANT to have a place for constructive conversation. Doesn't mean I don't want to have everything I want in one place.
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