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Are you a player?

If you are single or when you were single... are/were you a player? By player I mean... loved to play with the emotions of the opposite sex with the purpose of anything else but true love. Here are some reasons that players go out with the opposite sex:

- To get money after selling a sad story
- Physical gratification
- Not to feel lonely for a moment
- To impress friends

If this does not apply to you then have you ever gone out with someone that was a player? Did you no beforehand? If you did, why did you still go out with them?

Do not go into any weird details, keep to the basics

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well jb I used to be a player I used to think it was so cool to play women but now I have finally found the woman of my dreams and she has totally changed my life.
I think that playing women is just totally wrong now I would never go back out and play another woman cause I know that I wouldnt want to be played..

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I guess, back in the day, I could have been considered a player.  But not once did I use the guys for money, physical gratification, or to impress friends.  Only for me to not feel lonely for a moment.  I used to be big in the dating scene, of course, this is before my oldest one was born or conceived.  But then I got to the point that I was tired or maybe just bored of these guys always being around.  If I had it to do all over again, I wouldn't do it.  I think I would have just stayed by myself.

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I was never a player or went out with someone who was one. Actually I dated only some few guys that I thought were decent enough to go out with, some cases I was wrong...(yes, not everything that sparks is gold) :
I think it is so important to be caring about other's people feelings that I cannot imagine playing with such important things.

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Shady said:

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well jb I used to be a player I used to think it was so cool

Good thing Msslmshdy30 'tamed' you

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I really had to debate replying to this.  I used to be a player, yes I did.  You wouldn't know it now to look at me, LOL   But once upon a time, I was young, thin, and beautiful.  And very immature, and rather stupid !!!!  I never played on people's emotions for money, but I have to confess to all the rest on your list.

Now in my older, hopefully wiser, years...  my gosh, I've been single for seven years!!!  (what is that thing in the bible about the seven lean years... and the seven fat years?? aw... never mind)  I'm actually enjoying being single and not having to worry about "what will my husband think??!!??"  and  "I wish that husband of mine would fix that XYZ soon!!"  and that kind of thing.  I just do what I have to do, and fix what needs fixing myself.  It's going to be hard to find a new man...  I'm getting way too set in my ways!

I do regret the majority of those "player" years.  But I do have to admit that some of it was really fun!  And I'll have a "secret" when I'm an old grandma that no one will ever know  hahahahaha.

Roz

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I really had to debate replying to this.  I used to be a player, yes I did.

One can never know whom they will meet... lol

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You wouldn't know it now to look at me, LOL   But once upon a time, I was young, thin, and beautiful.

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I do regret the majority of those "player" years.  But I do have to admit that some of it was really fun!

:spock: Oh?

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My Quote:I do regret the majority of those "player" years.  But I do have to admit that some of it was really fun!  

and then JB said:

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Oh?

Well, yes, JB.   Why else would we do half of those things??  lol  

Of course, not all fun, and the aftermath of some of that fun was pretty harsh.  I really, really, really am glad and relieved that it's over.

Roz