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As evidenced by your own posts in the "Lazy Race" board, I could suppose that you are suffering from a form of that, yourself - a very common "inferiority complex" which places white people as being supreme and far more "worthy" than all others. |
My "flag of happens everywhere" gets raised, because I'm tired of people acting as though Trinidad is different or worse - inferior to other countries for reasons that are perfectly ridiculous!
Gossip could have stated that "people" are stuck in a primitive post-slavery mode. "She" did not. The statement was that the people of Trinidad & Tobago are primitive (forgive me if I'm wrong, but that seems like an attack to me, on my country and people). I will object to that as strenuously as I object to the "Lazy" statement regarding Blacks and Hispanics, because in my experience and in my opinon, they are ridiculous statements based on a very myopic world-view.
If we cannot agree on that, then so be it. Edited: trinichic on 13th Oct, 2006 - 10:08pm
I have never met a Trinidadian who accepts that people here behaves in a "primitive" way, I do not know if it is because of their lay back attitude, they are in denial or simply they do not care about the issue...or probably because they have been raised with that mindset and they cannot see themselves behaving in a "primitive" way because it's normal to them. Now that Carnival time is approaching you see this even more often by the way people behave on the streets. It's a shame.
Also, I would like to ask: do people have to stare at you in the way they do here? Whether you are walking down the road or in a maxi or car, people just stares at you like if you have something on your face. In the countries I have lived, if you want to look at someone without being noticed, you usually look and change your look quickly before the person notices it. Here, they stare non-stop without no problem! Edited: LDS_forever on 17th Oct, 2006 - 8:02pm
Just a guess here... by "people" staring at you... do you mean MEN staring at you? I think that goes right along with the thread about sexual harassment. You can bet that a woman who is less physically attractive than you is not going to agree with your statement because they wouldn't have experienced the same kind of, or amount of stares that you do. And I'm sure the men in this forum have very little experience at all with "people" staring at them. ;)
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Just a guess here... by "people" staring at you... do you mean MEN staring at you? |
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Just a guess here... by "people" staring at you... do you mean MEN staring at you? |
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And I'm sure the men in this forum have very little experience at all with "people" staring at them |
Well I can see why the word "Primitive" can be seen as harsh. I belive there is some major insecurites which Trinidadians share. I can certainly relate to whats being discussed and have experienced it many times.
I feel that many Trini's who displays such behavior has developed some type of inferior complex. They tend to lash out at someone very quickly for displaying what would be deemed "Un-Trini Like Behavior".
Trini's are very quick to condem and ridicule somone who seems to have conformed to some modern or different lifestyle. Even someone who speaks proper english or who has lived in another country and has displayed some cultural maturity is looked down apon.
The racial tention which exist today is because of this same type of behavior.
Trinidadians in General need to leave behind thier insecurites in order to progress as people into a more mature society.