
Why Are Men So Confusing
Name: Misty
Comments: Men can be so confusing. One day you have their total attention and then the next you are ignored, why is that men are so confusing?
Confusing or just easily distracted by shinny new things? Seriously though most guys feed them burp them and tuck then in bed a couple times a week they are pretty content.
I also hate to say thins but many are self absorbed and care little for others needs. Might be an over nurturing mother out there to thank for that one. If you are concerned though ask him what is distracting him if you are in a serious relationship or hope to have one. After all many guys do need to guided into a good relationship just by being open and frank with them.
Well thanks for the agreement ShadowsEdge, but a spot for thought is if none argued against what I said it might be that a good bit of exaggerated truth lied in it.
Slueth and you are both correct Men also find women confusing. It is simple in answer we have a pre-programed list of priorities that differ. The result is what is very important to one is less important to the other. The second big issue is women communicate through felling and men tend to misunderstand this greatly. The reverse is that when interpret what we say through their emotion based communication system and as a result how men go a bought goals seems suddenly strange.
Each person then varies this through personal past experiences just to make it worse. So yes being forward when feeling another's actions is causing you emotional stress is important. It is also important not to go at the resolution in the most non confrontational way. Most import do not attack his man hood nor her woman hood.
Again though I have only 15 years into this relation and still learning lots, so you might need more input from the singles out there as to why one would do this.