
Trust me, I don't want to know a pathetic man like him who abuses little defenseless babies. I am not trying to change your mind either. It is obvious you are here with an agenda to defend him, but you don't know how ridiculous it sounds to come online and defend a bastard who put a baby through torture.
Yes, I know that "no matter what you still care about him" after all, you well mentioned this whole thing is just a "little incident".
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And yet you still trying to tell my I sound out of my mind. Well no I know exactly what is on my mind and no matter what I only want to talk to him about it. I really am not going to go and think bad of him for this. I am going to try to get his side of the story to know for sure why he did it and maybe depending on why he did it then yes he does have issues that need to be taken care of but to kill him for it? I think not. Many people make mistakes. He may have been in an isolated situation and just freaked out and did not know what else to do. He may not have wanted to hurt the baby in any way and probably freaked out even more after it happened but still. That is no reason to kill him.
Angelica, you're just repeating yourself. It does not matter whether or not he meant to hurt the baby or not. He DID! And according to the police in the most HORRIBLE manner. End of the story... I want the guy dead for what he did! In jail, he will surely meet Bubba and his buddies who will then "explain" in their own terms why what he did was wrong!
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QUOTE (gelilutz17 @ 9-Sep 08, 11:01 PM) |
Some men can't take the cry of a baby. Many people can just live with it but some it drives them crazy. ...I feel that he most likely did not know what he was doing and will probably never do it again! |
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Caring for a person like this guy is a noble cause. I am sure you know him better than any of us do. Someone like him will need someone that cares for him to help him find his way. You say that he will never do this again. You may or may not be correct. You have not seen or talked to him for four years. A lot can happen in those four short years that can cause a person to be totally different. I hope for your sake he is still someone you care about. Just remember and be prepared for him to not be too.
That being said I can tell you I do not hate or dislike this guy. I feel he committed a crime and now he has to pay for that crime. Does that make him a bad person? In the courts eyes yes it does. HE committed a horrible act and he will pay for it in prison. He may not survive in prison as Bubba and his groupies really do not like child abusers. IF he does survive prison I hope you are able to get him to not do this again. Good luck.
I do have to say think you for at least some what understanding where I am coming from. Yes he should have jail or prison time for it. I will not say that he should get off scott free. Although I also do not think that it is a matter of killing him for it. Yes it has been a long time and for all I know he did chance. I really hope though that if I do get in touch with him that I get to help him out through this. I really do care about him even it he did it on purose. He is like family to me and I cried when I read the police report back when this did happen. I thought that maybe there was a little bit of hope that I might be able to find him by looking up his name on line. This is the second site he has come up on. The last one has no help on it any more. I saw the reply from some one who said they were his brother and that gave me hope that maybe I might have a chance in finding him and talking to him about this. I know it is a big deal and yes I have grown up in an abusive life style. I have had many step dads and have gone to a foster home. On that topic my dad has been in jail my whole life for more serious stuff and I am only just getting to know my dad now. He got out of jail and is not living in the same little town as me but I still do not see him like he is my father. I really would like to know how some one can have a kid and just not be in their life that much but live so close to them...
I am glad to hear you are taking this seriously. I hope that you are able to find and help him. I would check with the local police in the town where he was arrested. They may be able to help you track him down. Try both the ones who arrested him and even the county sheriff office. They are and should be your first hope of tracking him down.
Thank you! I have no idea how to contact them or even the name of them. I live in Fernley NV and have never heard of the place that he was arrested. I will try to look it up though thank you so much for believing that there is hope...