
Sad to say, but I've heard of a few people within the Church, that had committed suicide, one was the son of my Stake President. Within the Church, sex before marriage ranks right up next to murder and rape, as to one of the worst sins a person can do. Add to this, with young girls, who are still at home, getting pregnant is considered even worse of a sin, and sad to say that the girl get most, if not all the blame for getting pregnant. She might feel that she will be ostracized, or worse, I've heard of back alley abortions, dumping a LIVE baby in a dumpster, and other sad things being done (not necessarily by members of the Church), this is why, at least in the United States, at hospitals, they have a policy that states that they won't go the police, if you leave your baby there, some businesses, have jumped in with "Safe Place", it is where young, at risk teens, can go to, to get counseling, and to be a safe place during a crisis. Just read the Bible, there are temptresses, but no tempters recorded, for instance, Samson and Delilah, in the story she gets most of the blame for tempting him, but he ALLOWED himself to be tempted, not once, but several times. I know there are services like the Church's official 'Welfare Service' witch has counseling done by professional counselors, and adoption assistance, and many other services, with Church gospel principles, without the condemnation some people feel when confessing to a Bishop. There are other 'non-official' programs, so just talk to your Bishop, he has resources that can help.
I agree with the opinion repeated several times here that there is more social pressure in the church than in other churches. Because of (1) the unique doctrines and (2) the time needed to invest in the plentitude of spiritually imperative activities (such as church activities, family history, home teaching and so forth), it is much easier for a Mormon to identify himself as a part of society drastically different from the rest of the world. This is usually a good thing. It means it's harder for a Mormon (as part of a "peculiar people") to blindly fall into the sins that are popular in the wider society.
However because the single great determinant of this 'mormon society' a Mormon has to mentally delineate himself is spirituality, the pressure put on a person to feel good about himself as a part of that society is focused on just that point...
What I mean, in plain english, is that because the main thing I have in common with Johnny is something uniquely Mormon (such as a testimony of Joseph Smith), in order to feel close to Johnny (and avoid feeling close to the world, which doesn't believe Joseph Smith) I feel social pressure to advance my testimony of Joseph Smith.
Multiply that by all the unique doctrines to the church and you get a lot of social pressure on spirituality. I agree that that's a contributing factor to increased depression among Mormons.
I think that these are all good observations, but may I add some more to consider about this problem? (And a problem I think it is.)
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Were the church standards different then than they are today? Did your parents raise several kids? Did their parent raise several kids. Did they try to live the gospel? Did they have to take anti depressants? |
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I think there is depression in both teens AND adults, and if not treated and a person is young they will carry it through adulthood. My uncle suffered of depression since he was a very young child. That's why I think it is so important to talk with loved ones or the Bishop or someone we trust so we can get the help we need. In some cases, it is just a matter of proper medication and in others a matter of talking about it. There IS hope.
I pray, I read the scriptures and I feel good for awhile and then I feel pretty low after awhile. Not because of the scriptures but just because sometimes I can't help myself by thinking sad thoughts. How can I tell the difference between just having a low day and suffering from depression? Edited: CutieCTR on 31st Aug, 2009 - 2:47am
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How can I tell the difference between just having a low day and suffering from depression? |