Trees might be 'aware' of their size, Birch trees adjust their stem thickness to support their weight. Source 2a.
I believe that trees are not aware like other animals are aware, as they have no brain or such things. However, they do have some sort of self-regulation that enables them to know how to grow to a certain extent.
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