Are you afraid to post a message sometimes because you are afraid of getting rebuked or offending others? If so, which board are you most afraid of?
I try to be careful in how I word my posts so as to avoid offending others. I generally think that people are courteous here even when disagreeing. Ocassionally a post gets out of hand in my opinion. Usually this is done when the poster is new and hasn't yet adapted their posting style to the way we like to treat each other here.
I do hesitate to post in certain threads because I don't like the tone of them, but it isn't that I am afraid of being flamed so much as it is that I don't enjoy such heated discussions. I come to this site for uplifiting conversation not contention. I think disagreements are fine. In fact, if everyone agreed all the time there would be no point to posting at all. However, some threads, in my opinion are too combative for my tastes. I read most of them, but reply to few.
.. when i saw posters i was thinking.. movie posters or something and i was like.. uh o JB's done lost his mind he posted in the wrong board.. ... j/k
but no i don't think it really phases me any by who the poster is.. most of the time its the topic for me thats hard to talk about... or lack of experience of the topic.. i like to speak my mind about something, and if people don't like the way i feel they can always ignore it, or try and come back with a smarter comment.. but of course there is u JB.. we are all scared of u!!!.. ...j/p
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but of course there is u JB.. we are all scared of u!!! |
Hmm I'm not really intimidated by anyone, but I do worry about being intimidating myself! Sometimes I think I can come across a little harsh when I'm just trying to make a point, but I don't mean to be overbearing. I do wish I had LDS_forever's aplomb at handling some of the errant posters She's awesome!
Roz
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I do wish I had LDS_forever's aplomb at handling some of the errant posters |
I havent been intimidated yet by any forum members. I know tenaheff and myself have disagreed on a certain topic but I enjoy those types of posts, because they make the topic more interesting and easier to post too. JB hasnt intimidated me yet, maybe I havent said the right or wrong things yet