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Wow, talk about aiming for the groin, no, better yet, kick a man when he is on the ground, no, let me take it further... kick a man when he is down on the ground and sleeping!

In addition to what LDS_forever added above I will like to refer you to the Constructive Posting Policy, near the bottom which has a concise message that should answer any and all further questions you may have on this matter.

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I feel I should step in here as I have been an active topic is parts of this conversation. I guess I should start by going through a few things mentioned.

I guess to better explain myself for these posts is to clarify that my marriage to Cherry is actually my second marriage. I can not recall at the moment as to if I have ever mentioned that on any of my previous posts on the boards but I have regretfully gone through a divorce in the past. Unfortunately the selection on the profile information only let me choose at the time to have either engaged or divorced but not both even though they both did apply.

I completely agree with this and I want to apologize for adding to the confusion. I do not want to be seen as above the law in any way.

This is a completely true statement but I feel that it would be unfair to specifically call this down as a moderator only rule. I believe EVERY member and moderator should follow this to their best ability as every new member that joins us in discussion is actually looking for a good example from every active member. I believe that it is for this reason that moderation is taken as seriously as it is.

Babyblues, I truly do not believe that LDS meant any disrespect towards you at all. I believe that she was more simply attempting to give you her honest opinion of your reaction in this instance. I hate to see the two of you not seeing eye to eye as you both have much in common with one another from what I have seen from the two of you around the boards.

First of all I would like to point out that I do not see this as being an issue with a member as you put it. This is merely an issue with a single post. As far as being approached publicly on the boards rather than privately is actually a rather simple idea. This is not an attempt to make you look bad and I hate to know that you feel as if it is but I just want to point out that every time a bot corrects a post or deletes a post it is also addressed publicly. This is not meant to brand the member in any way but rather remind them of the policies as well as teach or remind any other member that might have made the same mistake in the future.

I do thank you for all of the kind words and praise. I do highly appreciate it. I am happy to know that I have set a good impression with my time spent here on the boards. I say that I am even flattered for lack of better words.

I have to agree that there is nothing online including this community that is worth any pains, worries, or even your health so I would understand if you were to choose a different avenue with your free time. I do hope that you consider sticking around or at the very least stopping by to say Hi and share your experiences from time to time. I feel that you have been a very inspiring member as I have really enjoyed reading about your experiences and opinions.

Now for my actual post:

I hate that you are having such a hard time recently as I know that today's conversation was not the first that has made you feel uncomfortable. I do hope that you find reason enough to stay around. After all, who else is going to join me in the chat room because they see me there alone? As far as real life situations go I hope that all is well. I know that you and your fiancee have moved your wedding date up towards the end of this year. I wish you two the best just in case I do not have a chance to tell you again. I know you were having a bit of stress related to your summer promotion which I hope has some what settled down as you have enough going on attempting to plan your wedding without your mom as well as everything else that summer tends to pile on. God Bless you as I will continue to keep you in my prayers these coming months.

Edited: bwren on 21st May, 2006 - 6:13am

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What are you apologizing for? You did nothing wrong, and you do not have to justify or even explain any of your actions here. In fact, and this has been mentioned many times before in our policy and rules - Members have no rights to question the Moderation of this Community or decide what should or should not happen, because regardless to if you donated nothing or $1000s you are still a guest and did not buy stock. Anytime, a Member feels they are above our policy then they are doomed to fall. BabyBlues should count herself lucky with all the cheap shots she has been taking that her account has not been already deleted. This attitude of "I want to say what I want to" and then have everyone agree has happened on several occasions and not just one or two times as is being painted here. Anyone who has a hard time understanding this should merely do two things:

1. Really read our Constructive Posting Policy as everyone would have agreed to this BEFORE they joined.

2. Read the Thread called, 'Types of Forum Users'.

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Oh Babyblues, Babyblues. Why did you have the need to lie like that? So much this forum meant to you to the point that you needed to create another identity called Paindruid and caused contention, you really thought we will not find out? You are truly naive. And if it was not you, but someone you invited using your computer...then there is something real wrong with you. You criticize this forum and then invite them here? Something is not right with you, yes.

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There is a zero tolerance here which has been crossed many a time by this User.

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You know, the interesting thing about this former Member is that after all that was said and done a few posts back I expected her to do the honorable thing and delete her account, but instead she just disappeared with that name for awhile only to return later and start posting without even as much as a "boo" to what I said above.

Now she returns to continue the saga... well enough of that, I am tired of hearing kiddie rants about how we should do things here. My suggestion... open your own Community and stay there where you can run it the way you want, and leave ours alone!