Relationship Abusive In You Signs
The bad part is that I can't really predict what he will do in any situation. I used to and now I can't. It's resulted in him being abnormally nice and understanding in situations where he wouldn't gain the upperhand by doing so. Or him doing strange things.
The time she refused to come home and talk to him for three days resulted in pretty constant texts and calls. If she were to disappear I'm not confident that he wouldn't try to hunt her down. They aren't divorced yet and she's still trying to get the rest of her things from him, like her valuable belongings, so there's that. They live in a very low-income area and she's too prideful to go to a shelter. (She does live separate but it is a small town so they are still in the same area).
My father also had quite the criminal lifestyle before he met her and cleaned himself up so there's not a lot of tricks that he doesn't already know. He's very intelligent and crafty, but also beginning to look unstable.
The idea of a fund for her is kind of to give her a jumping-off point so she doesn't need to rely on him for food or anything else.
Rather off topic, but... Edited: Nightlain on 19th Apr, 2017 - 2:15am
Trying to give details but not a whole lot for her own safety. This man found out where her boyfriend lived with nothing else than his first name, and possibly his phone number, however he managed to get that.