Loverofmine I think he's the one that needs to say but let me tell you that our people are not the kind of people who share "Feelings" And all that too much eh, just saying.
Title: Mentors of potential criminals
Comments: You not going to like this because its the truth. Where are these nice Trinidadian men?. They are very hard to distinguish. Trinidad men especially those of [a certain race] are a general disgrace to the nation. Practically all the serious crime including 99% of murders committed here are by [a certain race]. Even when they gain prominence and respect in their later years many still end up being masterminds of crime or corruption. The more cunning escape being tarnished with the same brush.The women are at the mercy of such men (Which are in the majority), when trying to bring up children in a family, especially where boys are concerned. These lads usually end up finding that their mentors are crooks and are easily led to follow in their footsteps. This is one of the main reasons why in this dog eat dog society we have a continuous flow of young criminals in the pipeline. Male parents here need to pull their socks up by setting better example to their children.
Title: About Trinidad men
Comments: Almost [all] Trinidad men lack self respect and self discipline. They are seeking to get some thing for nothing and hoping to become overnight millionaires by hook or crook. They lack real lasting ambition and perseverance. They lack patience and tenacity. In positions of authority or the achievement of any high qualification or profession, on this island, they then begin to act as Gods and in so doing overstep the mark of decency and reliable behaviour, usually they end up being tarnished with many black clouds hanging over their heads. They are bad mentors where their sons are concerned and see the opposite sex as a commodity and treat them as such. Of those living in this country [none] has ever achieve any lasting recognition since our independence over 50 years ago.
Comments: A good Trinidadian man is like gold so once you find him hold on to him because he won't be easily replace. Believe me, I've been down the road of abuse and hiding.
Comments: What is Best and Worst about Trinidadian Men? First there can't be sterotyping here because males are different regardless of their birth place or nationality. I can probably list the fun qualities in general.
Trinidadian men will always look on the brighter side of things and not make anythihng a worry, however if they overdo they tend to become lazy and don't want to do anything.
Title: The worst
Comments: They don't have respect for women they always bad talking their women, especially if you break up. [All they think about is sex] lets not talk about the old ones who try to run down [little] girls with their lies the worst set of men I ever encountered.
I can say for a lot of Trini men it is like that and the. Culture teaches them to be like that but don't get confused, its not like that all the time. There are first class Trini men who don't behave in this manner.
Title: The worst man I've ever met
Comments: I'm a black American woman who met a Trini on-line. At first he seemed nice until we started sleeping together. He's very rude and controlling. He offended me very early in our relationship by saying I'm more attractive than my teenage daughter. He's a big [..] and refuse to adapt to American culture.