Ok some update
After we broke up, a week later he started acting like he was so in love with me. He calls me more now and is always telling his friends to checck up on me. He gives me more kisses and hugs and pushes gifts in my face. and when I ask is he still in love with me, he gets so defensive and says "no!". Why is he acting like this now? does he really want our realtionship to continue and he's just to embarassed to admit to it? and now i don't really know if i still have feelings for him.. if i take him back , i am gonna treat him like dirt!!
Well three things can be happening:
1) He thinks you're sad because he left you...and he feels sorry but I doubt is that or
2) He miss you and he doesn't want to admit it because it will make him feel like a fool!. You know, some guys don't want the commitment thing and when they start to feel more love for someone, for some reason, they get frighten and they ran away...who knows, this may be the case.
3) He's adjusting slowly to be without ya but it's not being easy for him so he has mix feelings...
If I am I would not say anything nasty, I would wait to see what is he up to. There is not a need of it. You all should act as mature individuals not like little kids. So don't treat him like dirty, you know better than that and I know you have a good heart and know what's the right thing to do
I agree with LDS. I wouldn't rush back into his arms and I wouldn't treat him bad either. If he says he's not in love with you just take that as an answer and move on and if he later admits that he is, then work it out from there. Be strong though, whatever you decide and don't settle for something that you really don't want. Have fun. Your a teenager.
When I was a teenager and young adult, I wouldn't allow myself to be heartbroken. I've never suffered from a broken heart. I was looking for a good strong relationship but I made sure that I kept a little distance emotionally from the person so that I could still think clearly you know. If you get too involved then you lose sight of what's important. I got to know the guy and then asked myself if this is what I really wanted and then made a decision if the relationship was going where I wanted it to. It's worked for me. You don't have to decide now about a permanent relationship but have fun dating and getting to know people and keep in mind all of the good qualities they have and add them to a personal list of what you want in a guy and also practice those good qualities. It'll make you an even better person than you already are, the better person you are the better man you will get.
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My bf and i had a talk and we decided to take a break for a while. i was just wondering what u think taking a break means?.. I feel like we didn't make the right desicion by taking a break, but again i don't think i get the idea of what taking a break really means...